Inspired by the Facebook thread. I need advice on a really "middle school" situation. Two of my friends (K and D) have a baby together. They split up about two months ago and D has a new girlfriend. We've hung out with them a few times and the new girlfriend just friend requested me. K is not handling the situation very well and I know if I accept the friend request the new girl will tag me in pictures with her and D. I don't want K to see this and get more upset. So, do you think I should just send the new girl a message saying something like, "I really enjoy hanging out with you and always have a great time. I'm not sure how much you know about the situation with K and D but I don't want to rub your relationship in her face. I don't think we should be facebook friends right now. I hope you understand". I hate drama and am too old for the BS, any suggestions?