African American Weddings

How can we include the kids?

 Here the thing He has a 17 year old, 14, year old, and 10 year old, I have a 14 year old, 10 year old and we have a 6 year old daughter together. They are already in our wedding so that's done with.We really want them to be apart of the ceremony what should we do?

Re: How can we include the kids?

  • edited December 2011
    We plan on doing a sand ceremony. My son will pour with me and his daughter will pour with him. Then the four of us pour together symbolizing the joining of our families. I hope that helps.
  • aquarius125aquarius125 member
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    edited December 2011
    I too like the idea of sand ceremony but I think it would be good to get everyone there own color of sand and containers and pour them together as a family instead of a unity candle.
  • edited December 2011
    You could get everyone the same type of jewelry and it could symbolize the unity there.
    Lovin Kimmie
  • MrsJJohnson2BMrsJJohnson2B member
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    edited December 2011
    I agree with the sand were doing this aswell FI has a son
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    edited December 2011
    Well by the time I get married, I will have a one month old baby, so what we are doing is when the JOP announces us, he will also give the names of my son and our one month old baby. We will walk up the aisle together showing we are an united family.
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