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His Sister Oh and one more....

Okay I am really excited to get married BUT.....
 My Fiances sister (who i have never met) is almost forty and she is a hard tweaker, this is the third time in a year she has been arrested for yelling at "shadow" people butt naked!!! Okay?!! Also being skitso DOES NOT help.
 Also his younger cousin, he's only a year younger than me (hes 21) well the first time this guy comes to my home (where my newborn son is) he is so stoned he was passing out on my couch, and he had his forty one year old girlfriend with him, who decided to tell me her whole life story from freakin birth, awkward...
 So i really dont want these people at my wedding, but he is or was really close to his cousin so i am willing to look past that but did bring up he better be on his best behavior (my standards) or its my foot in his ass...
  But the big frog in my throat... his sister, they have not talked for almost a year, last time she was worried about the aliens, and she tells his whole family the only reason hes with me is because of the baby, so she obviously doesnt respect me!

  Lines are open ladies, ADVICE PLEASE!!???
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Re: His Sister Oh and one more....

  • Hmmm...sounds crazy. 
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  • For the sake of your son I would not let these people into your wedding or your life for that matter. Its sad when those we love fall into these destructive lifestyles but people under the influence can be dangerous and as a mother your son should always come first. I may sound like a stick in the mud or something but I wouldn't want a person half stoned out of their mind in my house much less near my kids.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_his-sister-oh-one?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:99b0b2dc-e4a6-4def-9682-05fb504ccf77Post:0904496d-2572-440d-8df5-05ffbbc72886">Re: His Sister Oh and one more....</a>:
    [QUOTE]For the sake of your son I would not let these people into your wedding or your life for that matter. Its sad when those we love fall into these destructive lifestyles but people under the influence can be dangerous and as a mother your son should always come first. I may sound like a stick in the mud or something but I wouldn't want a person half stoned out of their mind in my house much less near my kids.
    Posted by black_fire_pixies@yahoo.com[/QUOTE]

    Definetly agree, he has not been invited back here and she doesnt even know where we live, i requested that myself...
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_his-sister-oh-one?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:99b0b2dc-e4a6-4def-9682-05fb504ccf77Post:ef90cdb5-653a-42a4-8958-c9edaba9aff3">His Sister Oh and one more....</a>:
    [QUOTE]Okay I am really excited to get married BUT.....  My Fiances sister (who i have never met) is almost forty and she is a hard tweaker, this is the third time in a year she has been arrested for yelling at "shadow" people butt naked!!! Okay?!! Also being skitso DOES NOT help.  Also his younger cousin, he's only a year younger than me (hes 21) well the first time this guy comes to my home (where my newborn son is) he is so stoned he was passing out on my couch, and he had his forty one year old girlfriend with him, who decided to tell me her whole life story from freakin birth, awkward...  So i really dont want these people at my wedding, but he is or was really close to his cousin so i am willing to look past that but did bring up he better be on his best behavior (my standards) or its my foot in his ass...   But the big frog in my throat... his sister, they have not talked for almost a year, last time she was worried about the aliens, <strong>and she tells his whole family the only reason hes with me is because of the baby, so she obviously doesnt respect me!</strong>   Lines are open ladies, ADVICE PLEASE!!???
    Posted by mrshellem2012[/QUOTE]

    As FI advises me: "Consider the source." This woman is (and I can't get this straight so forgive me...) butt naked yelling at shadows and living in fear of aliens. Please do not lose sleep over what she says about you. She clearly has some problems, and I doubt anyone else takes what she says about you seriously.
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_his-sister-oh-one?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:99b0b2dc-e4a6-4def-9682-05fb504ccf77Post:61ed19a3-ecc9-45bb-af5d-79125cae031f">Re: His Sister Oh and one more....</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to His Sister Oh and one more.... : As FI advises me: "Consider the source." This woman is (and I can't get this straight so forgive me...) butt naked yelling at shadows and living in fear of aliens. Please do not lose sleep over what she says about you. She clearly has some problems, and I doubt anyone else takes what she says about you seriously.
    Posted by dragonwagon[/QUOTE]
    BAHAHAHA
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