First of all, I would really like to hear your opinion on what you think of this: I am having a destination wedding in April - most likely in Florida with about 26 or less close family and friends as guests. Then we are planning a huge reception/party here in Toledo in June of 2010. So my question is . . . Can I wear my wedding dress to the reception here? I don't know if it is tacky or not . . . I want our reception to really feel like people just came from a wedding - cake, dancing, centerpieces . . . everything that a regular reception would have. So what do you think? Can I wear my wedding dress there too?Also, any advice on dealing with self-absorbed family members while planning a wedding? I've been with my fiance for 10 years now and we just got engaged and are getting married - I've been waiting for this for the last 8 years of my life and I have someone in my life who is trying to get ALL of the attention. Throwing fits, talking behind my back, etc - and the CRAZY part is, I haven't done anything wrong. I am including EVERYONE in all the activities (even though there is NO wedding party). Any advice - this stress is really starting to get to me and all I want to do is just have a happy engagement and marry the man I love . . .