hi! this is my first post, but i've been enjoying reading the tips and advice. we're not getting married until april(ish) 2011, but i'd like to find a unique way to ask my bridesmaids to be bridesmaids sooner rather than later. i thought maybe sending them flowers and ask on the little card or mailing an invitation that invites them to be a bridesmaid. nothing too extravagant - just something to make them feel special. i want them to know that i appreciate them sharing this process with me from the start. any cute ideas?thank you ladies!