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**rajah**

alfdallas21alfdallas21
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ok girlie - I found a dress that I think will work since that other dress from Forever21 only comes in black and I really wanted it in blue...I found this one online on Macys.com and it's on sale for $51 (alot more than what I wanted to pay but I do like it)...n-e-whoooo, here it is...it's grey & black and will be better than the blue one as I thought I could match with the decor of royal blue/black/silver...
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  • RAJAHRAJAH
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    edited December 2011
    I think it is cute. . . and with the simplest of accessories, you will pull that baby off nicely. I like the belt, it will make the waistline look smaller accent the girls and the cakes at the same time. I don't know why they use such thin girls as models, we fabulous women have curves LOL! Great find - the price will be worth it when DH see's you in it. . . how are you going to wear your hair?
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  • alfdallas21alfdallas21
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    edited December 2011
    I usually wear my hair in an inverted bob that's wrapped but I'll probably pull the front up into a "hump" and have loose curls in the rest...sorta like this:
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  • RAJAHRAJAH
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    edited December 2011
    Oh - that will be cute! When is the party?
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  • alfdallas21alfdallas21
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    edited December 2011
    the par-tay will be in March...I know, I know "why are you finding your outfit so soon?"...girl I don't like to wait until the last minute for stuff as I like to be set before the event even gets here...that will lessen my stress of getting the party set up and er'thang else that goes into preparing for a surprise party...LOL!...plus if this dress goes on sale for less, I'll go and get the difference -- TRUST ME!...LOL!  ;)
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  • RAJAHRAJAH
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    edited December 2011
    LOL! you are just like me... I am so not the last minute person. I am looking for the things I need waaaay in advance. I am happy for the two of you and that is a wonderful idea to have a surprise par-tay! LOL! I had planned to take Fi on a superbowl cruise in February that is actually the weekend of his birthday, but since I have an appointment with a totally different doctor in about a week and a half, I will just wait to see what the deal is, they wanted to do surgery in december, so I wont be fully recovered. Fi is saying he doesn't want me to have surgery, he wants to have a baby - just pray for us, I don't want to have a baby. I don't feel well and I think I should try to reduce the issue I have and just enjoy life.
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  • alfdallas21alfdallas21
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    edited December 2011
    a superbowl cruise would be the bomb but I do remember you talking about having surgery right after your wedding...oh so now FI doesn't want you to go thru with it...do you guys alreday have children together or did he already have a child from a previous relationship??...I can only imagine the pain that you are going through right now, did the doctor say you would be able to carry full term if you had a baby with your current condition or is it more of you just don't want to have a baby period??...
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  • RAJAHRAJAH
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    edited December 2011
    We dont have any together; Fi has one from a previous relationship. I have two girls. The concern is carrying the baby to term and either way that is an issue. If I have the surgery, the uterus lining will have been cut and the weight of the baby may pose a pre-term issue. If I dont have surgery and become pregnant, the issue is  not being able to carry the baby to term because of the fibroid continuing to grow. I am cool on babies anyway and I dont want to get pregnant and just try and see if ther baby makes it to term. He isnt looking at those things.
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  • alfdallas21alfdallas21
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    edited December 2011
    aw man, that's a heavy issue to make a decision on...well  you always have to think of your health as well as the health of a potential baby...so just for my education, is the surgery the only option you have?...are there any other options for you to deal with your fibroids?
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  • RAJAHRAJAH
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    edited December 2011
    Yeah- its pretty heavy. I have the fibroids in the uterine wall so it would be surgery to open me up then cutting into the muscle, which weakens it. I am cool with it though, there are worse things to have and go through and I have given birth to two beautiful children. God has already blessed me more than I deserve.
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