This is probably going to seem like an odd question, but, I really just wanted to do something SUPER simple, such as going to Las Vegas or a destination wedding/honeymoon all in one trip somewhere.
My FI, however, has always dreamed of a large wedding and couldn't deal with not doing it.
I'm just sickened looking at how much money this is costing us and I think we can do SO MUCH MORE with this money like put a down payment on a house or something more responsible.
So, for those of you that have always dreamed of this big, fancy party.. please explain it to me because I just don't get it and he feels insulted when I try to talk to him about it.