Need a little help making this tactful. A girlfriend of mine from college sent me an email asking me if she could bring her kids to the wedding - she has FIVE! I was honestly surprised by the question as the invite was only addressed to her and her husband but I tried to send a tactful reply and said space is really limited, etc etc, and I thought the issue was done. Tonight I get an email that says to just put them down for FIVE people (because the baby doesn't need a chair!). I hate to sound rude here, but even at half price - it would cost me over $300 for her and her kids to attend our wedding, and I specifically didn't put them on the invite. What do i do? Do I email her back and point out that I said there wasn't room or do I just suck it up? I hate to say it but I'm not a kid person - we're having a nighttime wedding (7pm!) and the last thing I want are screaming babies. I'm so stressed with one month to go and now this! Help!