Since posting my last message. I've talked to the FI and we decided to go with September 18. Which is cool with me lol. It will be a little cooler outside since I want the ceremony outside thats a plus(especially since last july was a scorcher lol.)!! I've talked to the venue and booked that date. So I'm happy I finally got something accomplished for the wedding. And this gives is more time to save up money. YAY!!!! Thanks ladies for responding to my vent!!!