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WTF??? Yale student

Fox is reporting her body was found in the buliding she was last seen.WTF?   She  has been gone a week and they are just now finding it?There is a news conference at 5:30pm.






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  • Oh dear, that is very sad.
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  • Oh no!!  Oh my god...that is so sad.  I was really hoping she just had a last minute freak out. 
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  • Wow. On one of the online papers that reported it, people were making comments that they (the cops) needed to check every single closet, cabinet, everything, because she was so tiny. Other people were really mean and said that was stupid to try to tell the police what to do. Looks like the first people were right...
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  • it's so sad on so many levels.   I'm just shocked if the story is true it took a week to find her. 






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  • Thats really sad :(
  • Is Fox the only network reporting this?  I can't find it on CNN.  They found her bloody clothes and body in the ceiling?
  • As lame as it would have been of her to do it, I was really hoping she had gotten cold feet and run away. That's terrible that they just now found her. Her poor FI and family.
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  • I think so.  I was on Fox and they were talking about the bloody clothes.  Then all the sudden they broke that another source is saying her body was found. I have yet to confirm those reports.  But as I said the news conference is at 5:30  






    What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests.  Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated. 
  • I just saw it on the New York Daily News site. They said a New Haven tv reporter was told by police.
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  • Very tragic.
  • That is so sad and it shows the police did a half assed job. A couple months ago, a woman who cleans offices downtown went missing. Her daughter said that her mother worried about a guy who works in the building. They searched all over NY and worried. They found her body in the building where she went missing a week later.
  • How incredibly sad:(
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  • That is very sad.
  • That is horrible.  I was really hoping it was just cold feet
  • Prayers for her family and friends
  • this story just breaks my heart.
  • And they find her the day before she was supposed to be married. What a terrible thing for her fiance and family.
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  • That is really bizarre. It's so tragic that it had to end this way.
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  • It sounds like the body actually hasn't been found.
  • Really. I'm not near a tv right now. Not sure of that is good or bad.






    What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests.  Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated. 
  • This is terrible, so sad and the day before wedding was scheduled.  What a tragedy-
  • yeah, they said that evidence has been found, but didn't even confirm whether or not it was linked to her. Definitely no body.
  • The FBI is vehemently denying that a body has been found. Evidence has been seized and there are tests being done to see whether or not it is linked to Annie Le. The FBI won't specify what the evidence is,
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  • Since they couldn't find any footage on the cc cameras of her leaving the building, I thought that she was still in there... Especially since her purse and phone were still there. I imagined that she fell down a chute or something horrible like that. Doesn't make sense why they couldn't comb the building with scent dogs. Poor girl :(
  • I drove home to Boston today and I noticed all along 95 north were signs on billboards with annie's info. I am glad they are doing everything they can but I am not surprised the Yale police are not handling this expertly. As some one who went to Yale I really find the Yale police rely on the New Haven city cops far too heavily. New Haven is a seriously impoverished city with a lot of crime and Yale cops don't seem to get that.
  • I'm not surprised either.  Not only are campus policy not normally the best.  But I doubt they have a lot of murders at the campus to even gain the experience. Which is not a bad thing per se, I mean who wants to go to a school who has a lot of experience in solving murders?   But if something suspects foul play they should bring in experts to help ASAP.






    What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests.  Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated. 
  • New Haven is a seriously impoverished city with a lot of crime and Yale cops don't seem to get that.  I totally noticed how seedy New Haven is when I was there a few weeks ago for the expert witness thing at court.  They even had someone pick me up from the train station because of the people there. 
  • I totally noticed how seedy New Haven is when I was there a few weeks ago for the expert witness thing at court. They even had someone pick me up from the train station because of the people there. Yes, it is very sketchy, We lived in a gradute student area with tons of families and babies and we still got broken into, cars and homes. Yale is really the only thing there for any one any more and it is very sad. Without the University the city would just fall apart. There is still such a secluded, old school (no pun intended) mentality of how Yale is oh so seperate from the real world. Money can buy a lot, but it doesn't seem to buy a reality check.
  • http://www.cayleedaily.com/2009/09/missing-yale-students-body-found/http://www.wfsb.com/news/20875838/detail.htmlApparently, they've rescinded it...her body was NOT found yet.  But I'm afraid it might just be a matter of time...I live in CT and there are no updates about a body.  Looks like someone on the news team jumped the gun on this.  Her poor, poor family and FI.  I feel so terrible for them.
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  • E, there are definitely some seedy parts of NH like you said but some are really nice (as in all cities.) We have to drive down Dixwell Avenue and through some not-so-great parts of NH to get to downtown with the nice shops and restaurants. A few weeks ago, Nelson and I stopped at a stop sign on a side street and let a few people cross the road. One seemed to be a "meter maid" or security guard and the other a local resident. Well, they stood there in the middle of the road right in front of us, swearing at each other and shoving each other. It was getting heated, but only lasted a minute. We had no idea what to do - I half expected a weapon to be pulled out (as bad as that sounds.) Eventually the resident smacked the security person's lunch out of his hand, picked it up, and walked off with it. Thank goodness for no weapon, but man was I nervous!
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