My fiance and I live in Northern California, but we are coming back to his home of Ohio for the wedding. He's a non-practicing Lutheran and I might be best described as a Universalist. I've found one woman online, Reverend Susanna Margaret Goulder, but seeing as I don't have the pleasure of meeting in person with an officiant to get to know them, I'm wary. I'd like someone who won't scare the crap out of my parents or his family, but who would be very comfortable with helping us create a very personal ceremony. Any help would be appreciated.