Hey. I just recently got engaged after being with my fiance for 3 1/2 years and I havent even really started the wedding planning yet but I already have a problem. I was planning on having a formal night time reception so I didnt plan on inviting anyone under 18 years old but apparantly my fiance had no idea cause he brought up having his nieces and nephews at the wedding and we had a fight because I said I didnt plan on inviting children. He said thats the only thing hes asked for and its important to him. So the thing is Im not sure if I should just let him invite his 8 nieces and nephews who range in age from around 5 to 14 or if I should not even consider it. The problem is that it would cost more money for kids who probably wont even eat much and Im worried about them running around at the reception and ruining everything. I always thought children didnt get invited to a formal evening reception but he disagrees. So if anyone has any advice I would appreciate it. Thanks