Okay so I could totally get flamed for this but I know you girls will understand more than my own family. I'm now less than 3 months away from the wedding and it's starting to hit me that none of the girls in my family or FI's are very excited except for my mom. I keep thinking that I did everything for my sister's wedding, spent thousands of dollars, worked my arse off before, during and after, and she can care less about my own. I know I'm wrong to compare and I totally didn't do those things so that I can get something in return. And I know she's dealing with being a new mom too. I understand all those things but it still hurts that from day one (before she was preggo) she never bothered to go wedding dress shopping, or any of that other stuff. Then there's FI's mom and SIL who can care less they're going to our wedding. It's more like a party that they don't want to attend. They've gone shopping for outfits together and left me out even though I asked them to. Every time we want to get them involved in the planning FMIL has a headache. No joke this is not an exaggeration. However whenever FSIL and FBIL want her to do something her headache suddenly disappears. Of course there's no shower or b-party to be had and I'm not expecting one. You know that feeling you get when even though you're not going to be able to go somewhere the invitation is always nice. That's how I feel when it comes to them. I've brought up a few things to FI but I just feel like he just doesn't get it. He has all the support of the men in the family and my mom that he doesn't see how alone I am in this. Okay sorry to vent or whatever this was. I just needed to get that all out because it's really starting to hurt. Margarita's on the rocks for all you girls who listened (read). Thanks.