I sent an e-mail to the minster that my WC said would be officiating our wedding asking about vows and doing an engagement ring blessing. After a week of no response he tells me that due to a schedule conflict he's no longer doing our wedding, but has directed our WC to another Rev. Seriously?? I mean you would think a Rev. would honor the prior commitments he made. It just really irks me. I've been trying to get an idea of how the ceremony is going to go and I wanted to make sure there are certain things included that mean a lot to us and he treated me like I was crazy for even asking to see a copy of a sample ceremony. Now he's decided that he's not going to do it at all. I'm so frustrated b/c we're getting close and things aren't falling into place like they should be...*sigh* Thanks for letting me get that out, I hope everyone has a great Monday