I know I haven't participated much in conversations but I have enjoyed you ladies so much. I will continue to read and see how things are coming along. I wish each and everyone the very best and a dream wedding. My FI and I were living together. We have a son together and I needed someone to keep him for like an hour in the morning and an hour and half in the evening. Well, my FI said to ask my brother. My brother agreed but started staying each night because he knew they were losing their house. Well, my friend told me that he didn't want my brother staying with us. Mind you my FI is a LT and he pays the water and cable while I pay the mortgage and lights. Okay, everything was supposed to be halfed once he got all his bills straight. That never happened. I didn't feel he had any right to try to make me put my brother out of My House; not his. So he hadn't spoken to me in about 2 weeks. I couldn't take it any longer and asked him to leave Sunday morning. I hated to do it because my son is really attached to him but I felt that it was necessary. I didn't know how my son would be in school Monday but he did well. He did say that he missed his dad but his dad came to practice. I was fine in my classroom and life went on as normal until today. His mother called me at work and said that she was wondering what happened. She went on to say that he told her that I was running around in the street. OMG!!I was so hurt because I am a professional have an image to uphold and that is not my character. I have never ran around in the street. I wanted to speak with the principal and ask if I could have the day off because I felt so bad but I pressed my way on.I had already began paying for my flowers since my florist had to order them and they are cheaper during this time of year. The total for the flowers was $1500 and then I wanted beaded plates which I purchased and I also purchased beautiful chargers, nice frames for each guest, chair covers but that all turned out to be a waste. I hope no one else looses money like I did.Enough about this and good luck to all the brides and all the recently married I wish you the best as well also. I am getting to old now to think about getting a soul mate. I am 37 years old so I will focus on my little boy and let it go. God has blessed me with too much for me to allow this to get me down. I have got to let this go, even the money I lost so that I can get whatever else God has for me.