Brian and I have been talking alot lately about moving the wedding date up, possibly to May or June. The only reason we set the wedding so far away was because of the surgery- getting approval, setting it up, having it, the very long recoup time, the PT I would need, and then hopefully the weight loss- all before the wedding. Now that it's been denied by the court, and could take a full year for the appeal to go through, we see no reason to wait the over a year until the date we have now- it's been 9 months since we got engaged, and while we were willing to wait because of the surgery and all, not having anything standing in our way now is making us question whether we should move it or not.We can't have it any other time but May or June- the church we are getting married in does not have air conditioning, so we can't do it in the summer without our guests suffering. Brian wants to do whatever I want to do- he knows how much I have suffered, first with losing the house, and now with losing the surgery, and he just wants me to be happy. I have mentioned this to my MatronOH/older sister, and she thinks we should, because she understands why we were waiting. I also mentioned it in passing to my mom- who was like "OMG WHAT ARE YOU THINKING?!?!". She thinks we won't be able to get our vendors for the date we want- we really don't have a date per say that we want, just has to be in May or June.Does anyone have any thoughts on this topic? Good or bad? And please, try to keep it nice- this has been a hard enough topic for me to deal with, and while constructive criticism is welcome, harsh words are not needed right now. I am really struggling with this. Please, any help you can offer, any advice...we need it right now, as we really don't know what to do.