My fiance and I both are not into sweets whatsoever, and about a third of our guests are not as well. Any alternative ideas, also is it rude to not provide sweets for the ones that do enjoy them ( I know my grandparents may be bummed ) I don't want to miss out on the tradition but I also don't want to spend money on something that I'm not excited about that could go towards something else. I joked about a tier of cheeses, my favorite.