is it tacky or rude to give the bridesmaids fake flowers? I'm doing everything i can to lessen the cost of my ceremony, and i think it's silly to have real flowers for table center pieces, that most people won't keep, and real flowers for my BMs when they're just going to wilt and won't be kept either.I'm DIY-ing almost my entire wedding & reception, even my head-piece. This won't be anything i view as bad, but i don't want to be seen as a cheapskate.