I am not a huge fan of favors; rarely have I been to a wedding where I wanted one and it many I've seen a few not even taken. We are having a relatively small affair, maybe something approaching 100 (that's small compared to all our friends, etc.). I am planning to have little apples that will serve as escort cards but families/couples will have one so it's not quite a favor but they get to keep it. We aren't big fans of chocolate; I find bells and other little knick-knacks annoying. Bottom line, I just don't want favors. I think after providing a great evening of dinner and additional time of an impromptu after party (with open bar), I don't need to also include favors. Thoughts? If you gave or plan to give, why and what did you decide upon? If not, why? Thanks much!