So I've decided that since my mother raised me, I want her to walk me down the aisle. (parents divorced at age 5 - dad out of my life until age 12). I was completely ok with all of this until my dad offered to help pay for the wedding. I don't feel guilty by having my mom walk me down the aisle because that's exactly what I want, but I feel like I should include my dad somewhere and somehow. The only think I can think to say to him is "Dad, i'm going to have mom walk me down the aisle, but I really want do have a father/daughter dance with you" Having both parents walk me down the aisle is not an option (they hate each other) and that's not what I want anyways. I'm trying to make my wedding day the least awkward as I can, but still having some issues. Any advice on what to do with my dad, or even say to him without hurting his feelings to badly?TIA,Megan