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KIR part???

Ladysun083Ladysun083
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Sorry girls, I know I have been neglecting you....1. Finish this statement, I get turned off when he/she.......?2. If you once loved some one & that love for that person was lost or has gone away, were u ever in love with that person to begin with?3. Which one is worst, catching your mate cheating on u in your bed or outside of your house? Please explain your answer!For the semi newbies, you have to answer the KIR with an answer...lets get it
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  • Ladysun083Ladysun083
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    edited December 2011
    1. I used to get turned off when he talked a bunch of mess and was whack in bed!!  2. umm...I dont think that you were ever in love with that person as much as you just had love for them..i think when you are in love with someone no matter the circumstance in the back of your mind, it is always there   3. MY BED!!!!
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  • braxtongirlbraxtongirl member
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    edited December 2011
    1. Comes to bed with breathe smelling like alcohol! I don't drink so I don't want to taste anything that like that. Also, no smoke. So he knows if he has been around smoke, no love!2. I would say so because changes and grows and you can grow out of love with someone. But there should always a tiny spot for them somewhere in your heart if you truly loved him.3. In my House hand's down! To have the Gall to bring someone in my crib where I rest my head in the bricks I paid for! OH HAYLE TO THE NAW! That is bold and means you don't give a damn to even hide it and keep it away.
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  • NELCORPNELCORP member
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    edited December 2011
    1. when he hangs around the house all day and he thinks he don't have to take a shower b/c he ain't going nowhere2. I think once you loved you always love...even if that person makes you so mad. I think the love can shrink and the "hate" can grow larger making you never to act on that glimpse of love left3. In my house...you have no respect if you do that
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  • the catthe cat
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    edited December 2011
    I get turned off when he says "u like that baby? How dat feel?" I think u may not have been as in love as u thought. I know people and situations change, but people who are in love take that with them through the changes. It doesn't go away and it grows stronger the more its tested. He should do it in my bed. Legally, it'll be easier to understand why I tied him down, poured a thin layer of HOT honey all over him, added some African ants and recorded everything before I make him cut off his winky at gun point.
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  • ejt2011ejt2011 member
    10 Comments
    edited December 2011
    1. attempts to hug me after playing a sweaty game of basketball. 2. When its real its forever....so if gone it never was.3. In my bed....very disrespectful.
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  • Ladysun083Ladysun083
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    edited December 2011
    Cat you are a fool!!!
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  • dlthompson22dlthompson22
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    edited December 2011
    First Off Good Evening to all the ladies.Lmao at Cat.1. He rubs his sweaty a** feet on meet during bed. Something about feet turns me off.2.I would say not really. Its a difference to love someone and to be in love. If your in love with someone then I'm sure you would do all you can to work it out so things turn out good. Now I'm not saying this will still change the situation but its well worth the try.If you love someone then its more like caring about them but not being (hubby or wifey) type.3.In my house. If you go cheat with the hussie she betta have some where for yall to go. Cuz if I catch yall ohh wee its go be trouble, trouble. I'm go put on a nice pot of grits and burn both they azzes, then his shi* will be getting bleached and thrown out (after they leave). GET YO Cheating Tail out and Dueces to you.
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  • dst10spr97dst10spr97
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    edited December 2011
    1. I get turned off when he rubs his crusty feet on me. 2. I think so, I think you can be in love with that person and for whatever reason that love goes away. 3. In my bed. It's worse that you are cheating period but to bring it into my home will definitely get me my own episode on Snapped.
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  • MrClintonsFirstLady09MrClintonsFirstLady09
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    edited December 2011
    1. Finish this statement, I get turned off when he/she.......? Let me think about that one for a min.2. If you once loved some one & that love for that person was lost or has gone away, were u ever in love with that person to begin with? Honestly, it depends on what happened between you and that person. 3. Which one is worst, catching your mate cheating on u in your bed or outside of your house? Please explain your answer! Cheating is bad anyway you look at it. But I think to be bold enough to bring another woman into the bed that we share is like spitting in my face and you have no respect for me. I would rather he be caught outside of our home rather than defouling the place that he and I have built together. JMHO
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  • MrClintonsFirstLady09MrClintonsFirstLady09
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    edited December 2011
    ok I thought about question #1 and this is a multi-part answer lol... First off I am turned totally off when he slaps me on my a$$ thinking that is a turn on for me while we are intimate. That makes me wanna slap him back. Trying to kiss me first thing in the AM without allowing a lick of toothpaste to hit his mouth first. and when he rubs his feet on me knowing they are a little cracked and rough. That drives me BANANAS.
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  • tamtam7tamtam7 member
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    edited December 2011
    Finish this statement, I get turned off when he?Farts right before sex.  Definately ruins the mood.2. If you once loved some one & that love for that person was lost or has gone away, were u ever in love with that person to begin with? Hmm...I don't know.  I guess you were, you just moved in a different direction in your life.  Like I think back to ex-boyfriends, that I think I was in love with, we just grew a part.  But maybe I was never in love with them in the first place.  Hmmm. That's a tough one.3. Which one is worst, catching your mate cheating on u in your bed or outside of your house? Please explain your answer.  I'm with Mrs.clinton....cheating is hurtful either way it goes, but if you bring a chick into my home, my bed oh HEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLZ NO!
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  • kristi0618kristi0618
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    edited December 2011
    1.When he doesn't shave and tries to go downtown with all that facial hair. Can y'all say ouchy!!!2.I think its puppy love. I say this cause he wasn't meant for the rest of your life, but to prepare you for the man that you're meant for.3. First of all let me just say I wish a MF-er would have another bish in my mfing house. That is the most disrespectful thing a person could do. If you gon do it you best go to the motel 6 but trust imma find out. Y'all got me over here hot!!!
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