Save-the-Date etiquette

Re: Save-the-Date etiquette

• cvl105

  

  October 2009 edited December 2011

  I sent them all both.

  ~Chelsea~
  
  
  

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• uppereastgirl member

  

  October 2009 edited December 2011

  Every single person who is invited to the wedding receives a formal invitation, whether or not they received a save the date.But yes, parents and bridal party members absolutely get save the dates.  Don't you think your parents would be sad if they didn't get one as a keepsake?

  

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• cher1980

  

  October 2009 edited December 2011

  yes of course! they get save the dates and invites just like everyone else...

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• pzupko

  

  October 2009 edited December 2011

  Okay.  Now, do you write "and Guest" on the save-the-date address labels?  I know you do on the formal invitations, but I don't know about the s-t-ds.  I'm thinking you should so that the person being invited knows ahead of time to tell their guest to reserve the date. 

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• stapletond

  

  October 2009 edited December 2011

  No "and guest" for STDs.  Save that for the formal invitation.

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• cher1980

  

  October 2009 edited December 2011

  agree w/ pp - no"and guest"this way you can always change your mind...once you say and guest - you are locked in

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• alliecarrie41 member

  

  October 2009 edited December 2011

  Every single person who is invited to the wedding receives a formal invitation, whether or not they received a save the date.ditto this--send STDs to all.  "&guests" don't need to be known at this time.

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