I was really looking forward to marrying you in 3 weeks and spending the rest of our lives together but I'm afraid there has been a change in plans. Instead I'm going to have to kill you. Your sign that it's time to empty your bathroom trash can is when it's overflowing onto the floor. This does not mean you continue to throw stuff on top creating more trash on the floor. It also doesn't mean that you should hide empty soap/shampoo/toothpaste bottles in the cabinet. I do all of the shopping, cooking, cleaning, laundry, wedding planning and work 10 hours more than you a week. Not to mention commute twice as far. I know and accept that you're a slob but please make an effort to not add to the mess. This means occasionally helping with the dishes, not leaving beer bottles all over the house and hidding them behind things, it takes much less effort to throw them in the trash. And your socks on the family room floor - really? I wash, dry, fold and almost always put away your laundry. On the rare occasion I leave them folded on the spare bed because I'm too busy to put them away, please do not rummage through them to the point they end up in a big messy pile. As you know, I dispise clutter. However, living with someone requires compromise. As much as it drives me crazy I can deal with a small pile of your shiit on the kitchen counter. When this pile gets to be taller than me I'm not happy. I love you and hope we can come to a solution to allow us to continue with our wedding plans.Love, Jenni