Ladies as I have been on and off this board for close to 2 years I have noticed the many trials and tribulations that plague us as couples. Don't let the Devil tear down the Blessing that is promised to you by God! The Devil hates love, the Devil hates happiness, the Devil will and can tear down the strongest of relationships. Keep praying and when you stop, pray some more! It is God's promise to Bless you with a life mate, and it is the Devils job to try and break it! My DH and I have been married almost 15years and there have been occasions were the Devil tested our commitment to one another but alas prayer and God and determination prevailed and we are stronger as a couple for it. Ladies I keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers as you enter the sacred covenant marriage, and offer you this prayer from Jacqueline Jakes....."Lord, I thank you for putting my sister in a place where she is secure in you, No every little thing is not perfect in her life but she has come to a place where that no longer matters. Lord you have been so good to place her in a garden of life. Yes she is sometimes confronted with difficulties even now bu they do not affect her in the same way. She is so secure in you. She loves this soft place in you. God she is a rich woman. She is blessed beyond measure. She has arrived in a wealthy land by adversity. Her journey with you has led her into a lush and thriving field. Father teach her that on the other side of every struggle no matter hoe long is a river of peace and a place of serenity.Thank you for allowing her to personally witness your gallant and fearless entry into her dark places. I love you for your kindness to her. I love you for making all the things beautiful in your time. There is none like you. In our lives we watch your exceeding greatness. We are amazed at your limitless graciousness unto us. BLess my sister to know firsthand your unparralleled power and richness. Let her know in the recesses of her being that she is neither a brused rose nor a forsaken flower but open her eyes to see that she is the lily in her valley and the rose among the thorns. Let her know that in spite of the odds the challenges and the pain she is a gift of light that you have allowed to come into this dark world. Bless her to be a blessing to others and let this woman know Father that she is the prize. Remind her that within her you've hidden treasures. Lord I praise your name for making your women to know that they are the tropies par excellence living curio of heaven, handpicked to do your work and to perfoem your will. They are the prizes raised high in the air as symbols of victoried wrought in their lives. Glory to you God" In Jesus' name I pray, Amen