I have not asked anything of my one attendant other than she show up and wear a dress in the color of my choice- she picked the style, I bought it. She is wearing her own shoes/jewelry etc. She went dress shopping with me, but that was as a friend since we hadn't picked a WP at that point. Otherwise, she has given a few opinions here and there and fielded a few "oh, crap, what do I do now?" phone calls, but for the most part, I haven't asked her for help, and all help she has given me has been her idea, and very much appreciated.She is planning a bachelorette/relaxation event prior to the wedding, which I just found out and is an awesome surprise! At the wedding, other than walking down the aisle and taking pictures, I don't expect anything of her except to have a good time.Well, maybe I do expect one thing more...I am having frequent nightmares about this, and so I am probably a little off my rocker right now, but... what do you do when you have to go to the bathroom while wearing your wedding dress? I recently had my dress on (bustled up, too) and did a trial run of what I would need to do to use the toilet. Not a one-person job. Not even a 2 person job, maybe.When I was a BM, the bride's dress was very puffy and it took a bunch of us to hold it up for her to pee, then her sister had to help with the clean up in the nether-regions. She just couldn't reach over the puffiness of the dress!My MOH is a good friend- we are both nurses and are used to wiping all sorts of nasty messes. Is it okay to let her know that I will need help and can she help me with this, please? If she declines (which I doubt, but is possible) who do I ask or what do I do? My sister is also a nurse but will be unable to attend. My mom could help, I guess, as could my FMIL, but I don't really feel comfortable with that.I know I sound nuts. I am sorry. I just find really random things to worry about, I guess:) Would love to hear what you did, and want to make sure I am not expecting too much from my MOH!