So i finally started my invitations, they're semi-do it yourself, I bought the BRIDES kit from Michael's but have added a few personalized items in them, they're turning out very cute. I finished the invitation part and now need to move on to the inserts. On the RSVP insert....What did yours say? I just need to know how many ppl are coming not what type of meal they prefer since we are having buffet style catering.Also, I don't want to reserve 5 spots for a family of 5 and have more pple show up, so how do I let them know how many spaces have been reserved without sounding tacky???Thanks a bunch girls!