Overwhelmed and Young!

jagore08 · February 2010

There was a Lifetime movie about this same thing and the couple ends up getting divorced. Just saying.

pumpkinberry22 · February 2010

You are clearly not ready to get married. It should be something that is joyful and exciting not something that you have to keep a secret. Maybe you should take your efforts that you are spending on getting married and apply it to your education.

salt78 · February 2010

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[QUOTE]Shouldn't you be in physics class, or perhaps English at this time, and not knotting?
Posted by CA2MT4EveR[/QUOTE]

Schools are closed today for President's Day. :)

bethsmiles · February 2010

If you can't be an adult and tell your parents then you are not old enough to get married.
You need to wait. I have friends that got married right out of high school and thier first year of college but they were mature enough to tell thier parents and be in control of thier own finances. You don't sound ready for this AT ALL!

Personally, I would wait until after college. Why do you need to get married before your junior year of college? Just enjoy life right now and wait about getting married after college.

goheels05 · February 2010

If the "owls are not what they seem," then what are they? Robins? Hawks? Holograms?

VaporTrail · February 2010

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[QUOTE]If the "owls are not what they seem," then what are they? Robins? Hawks? Holograms?
Posted by goheels05[/QUOTE]

<div>poltergeists </div><div>
</div><div>gah that movie scared the crap out of me</div>

[Deleted User] · February 2010

I really like the hologram concept. Could they be robot holograms?

ohwhynot · February 2010

Her username is from Twin Peaks, apparently. I never watched teh show, but when I googled that username, Twin Peaks references came up. What it may mean to OP, I have no idea. OP?

mocha beans · February 2010

Wear a white dress to prom, that should satisfy your pretty pretty princess urges for a few years.

Wait 5 years, get out of college, give him a chance to do his thing with the marines. If you both make it through those experiences still together, then get engaged.

kdlopez1631 · February 2010

WOW people... she is asking for help and advice, not an english lesson... You should be ashamed, have you never been young and in love? I am not saying that this is the best choice but who are you to judge her?

Hun, I know how you feel, and I wish you the best, but do take some advice here. You are very, VERY young and you have your whole life to be happily ever after with the one you love. You mom's opinon will matter a lot!! If everyone whos opinion you care about thinks it is a horrible decision it will make it SOSOSO much harder on you... Why try to be engaged to be engaged? Don't pass by all the milestones in your life and rush into adulthood. Go to college, live on campus, get a crazy roomate, make memories that you can share with the one you were meant to share your life with. I wish you all the luck. By the way you are the one who has to live with your choices, I made mine... I am a young bride-to-be at 21 getting married at 23.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown · February 2010

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[QUOTE]Her username is from Twin Peaks, apparently. I never watched teh show, but when I googled that username, Twin Peaks references came up. What it may mean to OP, I have no idea. OP?
Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]

Yes. I recognized it from Twin Peaks, but the OP wasn't even born when that show was on the air.

MyNameIsNot · February 2010

If you are worried about being destitute now, trying getting married without first finishing college. You will learn all about being destitute.

AmoroAgain · February 2010

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[QUOTE]WOW people... she is asking for help and advice, not an english lesson... You should be ashamed, have you never been young and in love? I am not saying that this is the best choice but who are you to judge her?
Posted by kdlopez1631[/QUOTE]

I actuallly believe that giving her an english lesson IS giving her helpful advice on how to get ahead in life. I mean, if I were hiring her, and she said that she couldn't get married until she was destitute, I'd think something was wrong with her.

Yes, I've been young and in love, but it didn't addle my brain to the point that I didn't know how to create proper sentences or use incorrect verbiage when speaking.

scoetto · February 2010

As PPs have stated, you need to live your life before you get married. My husband first got married at 22. His wife was 18. He married her because he got her pregnant and wanted to do the right thing. Their marriage lasted a few months. She resents him daily because she had to grow up fast and didn't have a chance to experience a lot. Is that what you want your life to be like?

My husband and I married when we were both 29.

Do me a favor. Be wild and crazy. Then get married.

tam0214 · February 2010

So I definitely agree with kdlopez. Although I believe (hopefully) that you all were attempting to be helpful it really seemed that you were just bashing her. If that was the kind of advice she wanted she could have gone to her mother or another family member that would disapprove of the engagement.

But really, I'm 23 and just got engaged and still have concerns about being too young sometimes. You just need to think about whether it really is what would be best in the long run for the two of you. If you think about that I believe that you will understand that most likely it is not. You need time to mature and let your relationship mature. SO many marriages end in divorce because of money problems so if you start your life together by paying for a wedding and not having careers (or some kind of even some kind of real job) you are headed down a bad path.

Goodluck!

CassandraLynn718 · February 2010

Alright, I went through the same thing you did. Maybe not the boot camp thing but I wanted to get married so bad at 16.. wrong was I!! My now fiance and I NEEDED a break.. we took our time to ourselves and came to the decision we wanted to be together, it was more romantic than that but you get the jist of it. We are STILL waiting to get married for another two years. Overall, marriage is a huge commitment and if you don't feel comfortable telling your family or his then you obviously aren't ready. Live first! Go out with friends, stay out late, be young and find yourself!

MyNameIsNot · February 2010

Ok, let me be honest. I was engaged when I was 18. I was young, madly in love, and 100% certain that we were going to be together forever. I did tell my mom about it, and she freaked out. Most of my family caught wind of it, and they reacted the way most of the posters have here. They told me how ridiculous I was being, laughed, poked fun at us, and were pretty harsh with me. Even my grandparents (who got married at 19) told me it was moronic to get married before finishing college. For a while, I thought they were mean and just didn't understand. But it occurred to me after a while that if everyone thought this was the stupidest idea they'd ever heard, that maybe it wasn't so smart. Their reaction had a lot to do with our decision to put off the wedding indefinitely. We'd planned to do it on my 21st birthday. If they had just said "hmm, not such a great idea." It would have been much easier to just ignore them and think that they were wrong, since we thought it was true love.

In the end, we put off the wedding indefinitely, and eventually ended up breaking up. In retrospect, it never would have worked, and marrying him would have been the worst mistake I'd ever made. I'm so glad that someone was there to make me feel like an idiot for wanting to get married at 21.

If you can't tell your parents about it, you know it is a mistake. You already know you are far too young. Enjoy being a teenager while you still can. You'll probably end up spending 50 years of your life married. Enjoy this while you have the chance.

salt78 · February 2010

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[QUOTE]You should be ashamed, have you never been young and in love? I am not saying that this is the best choice but who are you to judge her?
Posted by kdlopez1631[/QUOTE]

<div>Oh please. Get off your soapbox.</div><div>
</div><div>I wish someone had given me a kick in the ass when I sounded this when I was "young and in love". </div><div>
</div>

elizabeth_g229 · February 2010

Wow you guys are harsh! Typos happen, let it go...

Not everyone gets married at the age of 25 or 26 or older. I come from a very small town where it is normal to get married at 18 and 19, especially if the military is involved. My own sister got married at 19 to an 18 year old husband and they are now 25 & 24 and doing well.

If you plan to go through with all this, you have to tell your parents. If you aren't mature enough to do that, I agree, you can't handle the marriage. Just know that marrying young puts a lot of unneccessary stress on you guys as a couple and that just staying engaged until you finish college would benefit you both.

Good luck.

emilyinchile · February 2010

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[QUOTE]WOW people... she is asking for help and advice, not an english lesson... You should be ashamed, have you never been young and in love? I am not saying that this is the best choice but who are you to judge her?
Posted by kdlopez1631[/QUOTE]

The OP is actually unintelligable. I have no idea what she meant by saying she has to be destitute before she gets married...literally no guesses whatsoever as to what she was trying to say. So it's not like people are giving some picky grammar lesson or judging a typo as another PP said, it's that they're trying to figure out what the hell this girl wants to tell us!

OP, I'm sure you're very upset by all of these comments, but as MNIN said - you've got a whole bunch of objective opinions telling you this is crazy. When I was in high school my boyfriend and I thought we'd be together forever too, and we ended up breaking up. If this really is "meant to be" you have nothing to lose by continuing to date and waiting several years to get married.

Emyle · February 2010

I am also 17 and engaged. We are getting married next year. But here's the thing, yes, many people are going to say that you are too young. But truly, marriage has nothing to do with your age. It has everything to do with your maturity. You do need to tell your mom. But before you let anyone know about your "engagement", you need to sit down with your fiance and talk finances. Figure out where you will live, how much it will cost, if you can afford to be in school and maintain a marriage at the same time, how much your wedding will cost and if you can afford to pay for your wedding, if you will have the time to spend together to grow your marriage. You two should talk long term. If you decide at that point that marriage is still right for you and you can support yourselves, then you need to tell your mom. But if you decide to wait, then you don't need to tell your mom, you can call off the engagement and you've avoided a catastrophe with your family. There is no rule that says that if you marry young it will surely end in divorce. You can always make a marriage work. But first consider the mechanics of a marriage before you consider how in love you are. I pray you make the right decision

oceana919 · February 2010

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[QUOTE]My <strong>finance</strong> is a Marine, and he proposed just before he left for boot camp. He'll be 19 in April and I'll be 18 in August... we haven't told our parents (my mom <strong>doens't</strong> approve of marrying before you're <strong>destitute</strong> and his dad thinks I'm a heathen because I'm <strong>catholic</strong>), but we want to get married before my junior year of college. I'm more than a little overwhelmed- being a senior in high school and having to deal with this is <strong>haring</strong>! Any advice?
Posted by theowls_arenot_whattheyseem@yahoo.com[/QUOTE]

First of all, try this:

My <strong>fiance</strong> is a Marine, and he proposed just before he left for boot camp. He'll be 19 in April and I'll be 18 in August. We haven't told our parents (my mom <strong>doesn't </strong>approve of marrying before you're <strong>deployed</strong>, and his dad thinks I'm a heathen because I'm <strong>Catholic</strong>), but we want to get married before my junior year of college. I'm more than a little overwhelmed - being a senior in high school and having to deal with this is <strong>harrowing</strong>! Any advice?

Ok, now to address all the <font color="#ff0000"><strong>big red flags</strong></font> in your post...

[QUOTE] My finance is a Marine, and he proposed just before he left for boot camp. <font color="#ff0000"><strong>He'll be 19 in April and I'll be 18 in August</strong></font>... [/QUOTE]

<font color="#ff0000"><strong>Big Red Flag #1.</strong></font> You're seventeen years old. You should not be worrying about weddings, you should be worrying about prom dresses and SATs. Call me a bitter old hag, but your world will be completely different at 25 (even 21) than it is now. You need to give yourself time to grow, time to experience life, and time to really learn what you want/need out of life and out of a relationship before you commit to a marriage.

[QUOTE]<strong><font color="#ff0000">we haven't told our parents</font></strong>[/QUOTE]

<strong><font color="#ff0000">Big Red Flag #2.</font></strong> If you're not capable and mature enough to tell your parents about the adult decision you made and deal with whatever consequences accompany that decision, you're not ready to be married - period.

[QUOTE](my mom doens't approve of marrying before you're destitute and his dad thinks I'm a heathen because I'm catholic)[/QUOTE]

Well, I imagine at, if you get married at this point in time, you will be <em>destitute </em>(ie. poor, unable to pay bills, etc.), as you are still a minor and have no stated career. Kind of hard to pay for a wedding and support a family with no career of any kind.

If you meant to say <em>deployed</em>, I can completely understand why your mom feels that way. Unfortunately, I've seen several marriages of young (fresh out of high school) couples who get married prior to deployment (for the sake of getting married prior to deployment) end up in divorce court, or worse, end up with a very young widow. Things can happen when you're apart for a year or more - temptation gets the best of you, you meet someone else, your viewpoints on life change, etc.

In terms of his father, well, that's a pot of rice you're going to have to boil with him and your FI.

[QUOTE] but we want to get married before my junior year of college. [/QUOTE]

Any particular reason why you have this deadline set up for yourselves? Will it hurt to wait one more year, until you've graduated from school and have established yourself financially?

[QUOTE]I'm more than a little overwhelmed- being a senior in high school and having to deal with this is haring! [/QUOTE]

I understand that dealing with a BF or FI overseas in a warzone can be difficult - I've watched many friends deal with it over the years. I can also understand that, in your perspective, given how many years you've lived and the amount of life experience you likely have, that this can seem like, well, the worst thing that's ever happened to you. But, sweetheart, you need to gain a little perspective. Being in the middle of a warzone - that's <em>harrowing</em>. Losing a child - that's <em>harrowing</em>. Being the victim of a brutal or violent crime - <em>that's harrowing.</em> This situation is difficult, but by no means harrowing. <em>Harrowing</em> would be being a widow at 21 because you rushed into a marriage that you weren't ready for.

[QUOTE]Any advice? [/QUOTE]

Yes, though I imagine you're not going to like it.

1. Call off the engagement. Given the title and tone of your entire thread, it's obvious that you have serious reservations about this situation. You need to trust what your gut is telling you. You are no less committed to your BF if you don't have a ring on your finger.

2. Get through college. Believe me, I've heard plenty of girls on this site rave about how much more mature they are than their average 16-17-18 year old counterpart, but you really have no idea how much your life will change in the years between 18 and 25. Your viewpoints will change...what you want/need out of life, out of friendships, out of a romantic relationship, will change. What is important to you know may or may not be as important to you in the years to come. The next 4-7 years will shape you into the person you are supposed to be, and more often than not, that's a different person than who you are at 17. If, after graduating college, you are still together and this is still what you want, well then congrats - throw on the white dress and do the damn thing.

3. Think long and hard about the reality of your situation. Being in your situation requires a lot of soul searching, and a lot of adult decisions. Think about these, for example:

- So, you decide to get married now...how exactly are you going to pay for the wedding?
- Are you ready to be completely financially independent from your parents?
- Are you prepared to financially support yourself? This includes rent, tuition, food, gas, health insurance, car insurance, car payments, etc., etc.
- Where are you going to live, being married and in the US alone with a husband overseas?
- What happens if your husband is stationed in a US location 1000s of miles away from your selected university? Are you prepared to have a long distance marriage, or leave your selected program and find one close to him?
- Is your husband prepared to support you financially while he's overseas, including housing, benefits (health insurance, etc.), tuition assistance, etc.?
- How are you planning to support yourself while your husband is overseas and you're in school?
- What happens if you get pregnant? Are you prepared to be a single parent at 21-22 while your husband is deployed?
- Are you prepared with the possibility of being a widow in your early 20s? Possibly a widowed single mother (if you have children)?
- Are you prepared to deal with any physical injuries or disabilities your husband may come back with?
- What happens if your husband comes back a different person? Living and fighting in a warzone can change a person - can you still remain in a committed marriage if he comes back not as the husband you married?

4. Be realistic. I was in my first year of college when 9/11 hit. I had four friends who joined the military as a result, and swiftly married/got engaged to their GFs and BFs before they deployed. The end result, nine years later? Two were in divorce court, one was a widow at 19, and the other is now a single mother with a deadbeat military officer for a babydaddy. I'm not saying you're automatically going to fall into any of those categories, but they are all very real possibilities that you need to recognize.

I truly hope for your sake that you think long and hard about this situation, and that you come to a decision that is truly best for you.

oceana919 · February 2010

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[QUOTE]I am also 17 and engaged. We are getting married next year. But here's the thing, yes, many people are going to say that you are too young. But truly, marriage has nothing to do with your age. It has everything to do with your maturity. You do need to tell your mom. But before you let anyone know about your "engagement", you need to sit down with your fiance and talk finances. Figure out where you will live, how much it will cost, if you can afford to be in school and maintain a marriage at the same time, how much your wedding will cost and if you can afford to pay for your wedding, if you will have the time to spend together to grow your marriage. You two should talk long term. If you decide at that point that marriage is still right for you and you can support yourselves, then you need to tell your mom. But if you decide to wait, then you don't need to tell your mom, you can call off the engagement and you've avoided a catastrophe with your family. There is no rule that says that if you marry young it will surely end in divorce. You can always make a marriage work. But first consider the mechanics of a marriage before you consider how in love you are. I pray you make the right decision :)
Posted by Emyle[/QUOTE]

Despite the fact of you getting married at 18 scaring the beejeezus out of me, you seemed pretty level-headed and logical until you said this:

[QUOTE]You can always make a marriage work.[/QUOTE]

No, not always, honey. Just ask <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Francine_Hughes" target="_blank">Francine Hughes</a>. Or <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Laci_peterson" target="_blank">Laci Peterson</a>. Or <a href="http://marriage.about.com/od/infamous/p/dennisrader.htm" target="_blank">Paula Rader</a>. Or, hell, just ask <a href="http://www.entertainmentandshowbiz.com/tiger-woods-his-reputation-down-his-mistresses-up-2010021135827" target="_blank">Elin Nordegrin</a>. I imagine you already know this, but it's something to consider when you make a statement like that. Some things in life are unforgiveable, or unrepairable.

salt78 · February 2010

Oceanabanana - Doesn't it just hurt your brain?
I ditto everything you said in the above post. Couldn't have said it better myself.

Emyle · February 2010

Yes you are right. Some things are unrepairable. I meant to fix that before I posted it.

oceana919 · February 2010

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[QUOTE]Oceanabanana - Doesn't it just hurt your brain? I ditto everything you said in the above post. Couldn't have said it better myself.
Posted by salt78[/QUOTE]

I was literally popping Aleve as I read the post...lol

ps. Where have you <em>been?!? </em>Haven't seen you in forever!!! We miss some saltiness over at NEY... :)

emilyinchile · February 2010

Emyle, although I still think you're way too young to get married (and it's not like I'm sooo much older, I'm 24, I've just already experienced how moving out of the house, going off to college and starting to work have changed my life), at least you sound like you have actually considered the important things about choosing to make a life with someone. I am torn in between wanting to say "but just wait a couple more years, have a long engagement!" and wanting to congratulate you on your maturity, so I will do both.

noelle24 · February 2010

Destitute: I do not think it means what you think it means. There's this lovely book called a dictionary. You should open it up sometime.

And no, people aren't just bashing her to bash her. I have NO CLUE what the hell she was trying to say there. It just doesn't make any sense as it's written, and how are we supposed to give good advice if we can't understand the OP? Plus, this poster just epitomizes "BSC young bride", and it's grating on the eyes.

One day, when you actually grow up and become an adult yourself, you'll realize that not all of the adults in your life right now are full of shiit. When they all react to your engagement with horrified expressions, there's probably a good reason for it. And hey, they DO know more about life because they've actually lived it. Blowing people off (in real life or in this thread) by saying "you just don't understand me!" would NOT be a smart response.

Bottom line: If the only support you can garner (garner means "to gather", fyi) for your marriage is from other 17/18 year olds, then perhaps you should re-think this whole marriage-thing.

bethsmiles · February 2010

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[QUOTE]I am also 17 and engaged. We are getting married next year. But here's the thing, yes, many people are going to say that you are too young. But truly, marriage has nothing to do with your age. It has everything to do with your maturity. You do need to tell your mom. But before you let anyone know about your "engagement", you need to sit down with your fiance and talk finances. Figure out where you will live, how much it will cost, if you can afford to be in school and maintain a marriage at the same time, how much your wedding will cost and if you can afford to pay for your wedding, if you will have the time to spend together to grow your marriage. You two should talk long term. If you decide at that point that marriage is still right for you and you can support yourselves, then you need to tell your mom. But if you decide to wait, then you don't need to tell your mom, you can call off the engagement and you've avoided a catastrophe with your family. There is no rule that says that if you marry young it will surely end in divorce. You can always make a marriage work. But first consider the mechanics of a marriage before you consider how in love you are. I pray you make the right decision :)
Posted by Emyle[/QUOTE]

Alot of my friends have gotten married at 18 and 19 too. None are divorced and none were pregnant and felt they had to get married. Some places it really is normal (although where I am from it religious and has nothing to do with military stuff). But you sound like you understand what a huge committment marriage is and a level head, unlike the OP. Although I still think there is no reason to not wait until you have experience life some more.

salt78 · February 2010

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Overwhelmed and Young! : I was literally popping Aleve as I read the post...lol ps. Where have you been?!? Haven't seen you in forever!!! We miss some saltiness over at NEY... :)
Posted by oceana919[/QUOTE]

Overwhelmed by weddingness. I should stop by and say hi! :) I have missed you, mah dear.

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