Hi ladies I was just checking my voicemail and had a message from my dads gf. Before I get into the vm let me tell you briefly my relationship with my dad.We do not get along. We had it out about 2 yrs ago and it has never been the same. His love it just fake and I am sick of getting hurt by him. Every since I got engaged he really hasn't asked if I need anything..Not that he has done anything for me since my parents divorced, I as 4 yrs. ago. Any who my mom passed away 10 yrs ago and since then my grandparents have been there for me and my bro..they hate my father bcuz how much he hurt my mother. My wedding is a dw it's on a cruise as most of you know. Well I have not invited my father to the cruise since I really think he will try to ruin my special day, my grandparents get hurt every time they see him, all my family members and friends dislike him, and he will be disappointed when I tell him he wont be walking me down the aisle or having the first dance. Every time I see him his gf always ask about how the wedding planning is comming along he never asks. Well my brother mentioned to me the other day that he CALLED MY BRO not me to ask for the contact info of the travel agency and where was the cruise going.Since my brother knows how I feel he told him to call me for the info. Well sure enoug he such a coward his gf called and left a vm asking for the wedding informaton. WTF do I do... I truly think he will ruin my day. My heart would love for him to go but my mind tells me I should know better not to be fooled. I dont want to have any regrets...Wishing my mom was here to give me advice. :(sorry so long.