OMG!Thank you ladies for the support :-D I swear I thought I was the only one that thought that she was nutty.I spoke to FI and he called Grandma right away and told her she can't bring the extra girl. She was all like "I'm sorry, I must of misunderstood" She's a saint with FI since thats her baby. So then of course I looked like a crazy person! W/E!BUT...yeah, no extra perso.About my weight. I told him not to bring it up to her. There is no need to put more fuel in the fire and cause unnecessary tension...I'll just be the bigger person Thank you ladies!Jennius: Your grandma calling your pastor fat is HILARIOUS!! Poor pastor!