Hi, I am new to this. I just got engaged 10/16/2009 and we have decided on a small wedding of only 30-40 guests and it is to be held on 11/20/2010. I want to have the wedding and reception at the same place. Something small with sqaure tables seating only 4 at each. Somewhere maybe with a fireplace or picture windows to see the outdoor fall colors. I have the dress and colors picked. I will be wearing a not so fru fru dress - it is actually a brieds maid separates dress in butter from alfred angelo and Jay will be wearing a brown suit. We are decorating in fall colors. I want a dark forest/hunter green "carpet" to walk down. My daughter and his daughter will be the flower girls and will drop fall colored leaves rather than rose petals and we are not having a bridal party. Our girls will stand on either side of us during the ceremony and will light the unity candle with us to unite our family. My dad will walk me down the isle to Patty Labelle's song "If you only knew" and Jay and I will dance our first dance to "Forever my love" by Levert. We have so many things decided on but not the place to get married. Please let me know if you have any ideas of a place for us. Thank you so much and congrats and good luck to everyone else here on this board! Melissa