My fiance's sister just revealed to him that she has serious reservations about me. The past two years of my life have been extremely rocky with health problems, long term unemployment becuase of said health problems, home foreclosure, etc. The kicker is, that she has made no effort to get to know me in the 3 1/2 years that her brother and I have been together. She has never initiated conversation with me, nor has she been responsive to my attempts at making conversation with her. I guess I am glad that what I have suspected is finally out in the open. HEre is my dilemna...she told her brother that she would not be offended if I did not include her in the wedding party (which I had wanted to do before this happened). Do I not include her? We all know how women are and I think not including her would have a negative impact on my relationship with her and my MIL. But having someone in my wedding party that doesn't care for me and isn't supportive doesn't make sense either. This completely hurts my heart. Any thoughts?