So my sister lives in Yakima. We aren't close and we have completely opposite personalities that clash in the worst ways. We only lived together until I was 10. She moved in with our grandma and I moved in with my dad. We drifted and lived and still lead COMPLETELY different lives. A few years ago I thought FI was going to propose because he told me he bought me really expensive jewelry and he was financing it. I told my sister because she happened to call and she told me that she didn't want to be my maid of honor because she "couldn't just drop her life for me or my wedding". She also told me that her daughters would need to beable to come to my bachlorette party and bridal shower. I never planned on having her even be in the wedding party. Turns out FI bought me a really expensive diamond tennis bracelett that I made him return.Then recently she was telling me that since I have so many good friends and my bestfriends live over here and have been my bestfriends for over 10 years that she wouldn't be hurt if she wasn't in my wedding party. Again, we aren't close, I would never want to kick one of my girls out that I've been friends with forever. She is completely uninterested in my life unless it somehow benefits her.So last night when I was going to turn my computer off and go to bed, she messaged me on facebook and was asking about the wedding. She was talking about the bachlorette party and other wedding related crap. Then she called me and said, well once you pick the rest of the girls I'll call them and ask them what they want to pay for. I tell her that the bms usually plan the parties and she goes, we'll you still plan on having me as the MOH right? So I tell her no.She got really mad and just started freaking out on me. She has the worst temper and will literally turn into psycho in 1 second. At the drop of the dime she starts acting like she has no sense. I don't trust her. She is seriously a liability to me and I just really don't want to have problems on my wedding day because she starts trippin. I feel bad because I think she expects to be in my wedding but after talking to my mum and dad, I am not going to ask her. I have really tried to avoid talking to her about weddings. Randomly she calls me a lot and asks me about the wedding and then she stops calling and forgets my bday passes. I know that this is going to start a fight and my sister holds grudges. Maybe it sounds insensitive but I'm not going to change my mind because she is going to be angry. I was going to ask her to do a short reading or something but after the way she acted it just proved that I am right about her. Am I being a completely b!!tch or what? Why would some one ask you if they are in your wedding party?? UGH!!!!!!!!
we're having twins!