Make it go away!

Re: Make it go away!

• lilgina64

  

  November 2009

  I'm so sorry bethrothed. thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.I second the motion about the Neti Pot... also try Aleve extra strength if you really can't get rid of the pounding.

  

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• stace1814 member

  

  November 2009

  Not being able to talk to him has got to be very hard.  Just remind yourself that you know that he loves you, even if he can't tell you right now.  He knows that you love him just the same way.

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• betrothed123

  

  November 2009

  Again, thanks ladies.  You're really helping me keep a clearer head about all of it.  It's also really nice to not feel so alone right now.  All of my friends are unavailable right now and being alone to deal with it just sucks.

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  And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it. ~jcaruncho2010
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• squirrly member

  

  November 2009

  Believe me, I understand.  Just keep in mind that he's got great nurses taking care of him, and he's lived a long, well-loved life.  I had a hard time because my grandfather wasn't buried.  (He was cremated, and is in "storage" until my grandmother passes.  She'll be cremated and their ashes will be mixed and buried together.  Yes, I think that's weird too.)  I felt like there was no place for me to go and sit and talk to him and grieve.  But, really, now he's with me all the time wherever I go.

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• rkroer member

  

  November 2009

  I'm so sorry to hear about your grandpa.  I hope you somehow find peace and comfort during this tough time, I know it's not easy.  FI's grandma passed this summer, and then both of my dad's parents passed this fall.  I know what it's like to not be there with them, but hopefully you can start to believe yourself soon that he really does know how much you love him and want to be there right now.Let us know if we can do anything, even if it's just virtual hugs.

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