When I got engaged I asked my best friend to be my maid of honor and he said yes. Than shortly after he has not appered intrested in helping at all. He has not showned up for any wedding planning, wont return my calls/emails/texts. Hes gay so its not like he has a thing for me and I know he is not in school or busy he partys all the time. Should I demote him or not? There is another briadsmaid that is very well deserving of the position. She has helped with everything and is always there for me and my fiance.