My wedding will be on Jan30th. It's going to be really nice, I can't wait!!! But it's also going to be very small, only our very closest family and friends/30 - 40 guests at the very most.I work in a small office with only 5 people and that includes our boss. I'm beginning to think that my coworkers are assuming that they're being invited to the wedding. I don't talk much about the wedding at work, just because I don't feel close enough with my coworkers to talk about it with them. There's no hard feelings between us, we're just very different types of people. But just in case, I started talking a little more about it whenever I can and casually mentioning that it's going to be very small, only family and the very closest friends. Do you all think that's good enough? I don't need to have some formal conversation with them about why we're not inviting them do I? I don't think that I do. I think that would be too much as I doubt that any of them are dying to come to our wedding anyway. FI is thinking that maybe I should have a talk/talk with them just to make sure that there's no hard feelings. I'm dreading the thought of that. I really, really doubt that they want to come anyway.