OK. So my exBF, with whom I am still friends, got engaged about a month after I did, which was about a year ago. They got pregnant not long after that and decided to postpone their wedding. Now the baby is about a month old and I think they're picking up the wedding plans again, although it will likely be a smaller affair now. I am getting married on May 15, 2010, which is a fairly popular day, but I don't know if he knows my date, and I want to make sure they don't plan their wedding the same day or a week or so before. We have a lot of friends in common and our guest lists (and bachelor/bachelorette parties) would overlap. BUT we're not inviting him to our wedding, which might surprise him, so I don't know how to ask. Any advice? Am I worrying about it too much? I don't even know for sure if they've started planning their wedding again, but I keep half-expecting to sign onto Facebook and find his status saying "we're making it official on May 15!" or something like that. LOL. What should I do? :)B