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Freakin out need advise

Fiances ex is friendly with us. Ive accually gone shopping with her a few times. Well today we were shopping and she slipped that she, fiancé and his half sister accedently hooked up when they were on E about ten years ago...... I dont no if shes lying. Should I ask fiancé? I'm freaking out. I'm against drunks, but this was ten years ago. Omg and if its tru thats so gross. She kept saying not to tell him I no.

Whats weird is that his half sister has always been kinda mean to me where the rest of family is nice. He avoids his sister saying that shes shady, but now im wondering........ I have no one to talk to about this.

My father wants us to move back to Onset, and fiances been pushing for the move. Maybe its a good idea to start over? Get away from his ex and weird sister. dads been sober for almost 2 years and own a multifamily that we could live in and work in his resterant. I just dont want to leave my Mommy. Plus what else is Fiancé keeping from me? This is why I want a long engagement. We need to get to no each other better. Dont get me rong I love him, just confused now.
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  • Oh Shelby. Bless your heart. 
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  • :S....wth?
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  • um. your fiance is gross if he flucked his half sister.   I would absolutely confront him and then leave his ass if he admitted to it.
  • Shlby, you're a terrible troll. 



  • I want to know how they managed to hook up over TK.  Was TK even around 10 years ago?  Did the boards even exist?
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  • Drunks = bad. Ex = A-OK!
  • Shlby, I just noticed you're from Maine...Are you from the County?  
  • You don't like drunks?   What does that have to do with anything?  E is a drug.

    And you don't accidentely hook-up with someone on E.  You might hook-up with somoene, but it's not by accident.  Well, unless I guess if you are in a big orgy.






    What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests.  Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated. 
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    [QUOTE]Someone help out the innocent angel over here and tell me what E is.
    Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

    <div>Ecstacy.  Supposively makes you all touchy feely.</div>
  • Yawn. Go away.
     
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Freakin out need advise : As in the County Lockup?  I wouldn't be surprised. <strong>OP was not too happy when 13 year old Amber stole her thunder the other day.  She needs to up her game.
    </strong>Posted by LingerLonger1[/QUOTE]

    AHAHAHAHAHAHA
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  • Umm...... Hope you're a troll but if not what about "the baby".
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re:Freakin out need advise : Etiquette.  DUH!
    Posted by LingerLonger1[/QUOTE]

    In this case, no... E is slang for a drug... Ecstacy.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re:Freakin out need advise : In this case, no... E is slang for a drug... Ecstacy.
    Posted by mandi195[/QUOTE]

    <div>Clearly you need a remedial course in sarcasm and humor.</div>
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    [QUOTE]um. your fiance is gross if he flucked his half sister.   I would absolutely confront him and then leave his ass if he admitted to it.
    Posted by cmgilpin[/QUOTE]



    Yes this, but isn't she pregnant?
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  • You need to confront your baby daddy with this intel you have collected. It will help you get to 'no' him better.
  • Reading fail on my part, I just noticed your screen name was Shlby not Shelby. Is that a purposeful thing or are you truly not able to spell your own fake name? 
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    [QUOTE]Um, when I was a young whippersnapper, we called Ecstasy "X".   Dammed kids, always changing things around to confuse the old folks.
    Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

    <div>In my world also. </div><div>
    </div><div>I'll admit, I considered the source and assumed that "E" is ecstasy.    I could be wrong, but nothing else really makes sense.    I haven't really heard of people getting so drunk they F their own sister on Eggnog. (can't really come up with an another E alcoholic drinks)</div>






    What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests.  Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated. 
  • E-motionally Disturbed? 
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  • Oh I'm just wondering if she's really pregnant.
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  • 1) OP how old are you? 2) spelling and grammar lessons would work wonders.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Freakin out need advise : A bit slow on the uptake aren't you?
    Posted by LingerLonger1[/QUOTE]



    Haha yeah
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  • I feel like someone was watching Cruel Intentions recently from this post...
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  • In Response to Re:Freakin out need advise:[QUOTE]Um, when I was a young whippersnapper, we called Ecstasy "X". nbsp;Dammed kids, always changing things around to confuse the old folks. Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

    I think this is regional, not generational. Where I grew up, it was "X", but where I went to college it was "E".

    And on the off chance someone I know IRL stumbles across this, I feel compelled to note for the record that I never tried it, whatever it was being called.
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    Also, I think it's a little ridiculous to be THIS freaked out about a sexual encounter between consenting adults that occurred TEN YEARS AGO. Maybe I have been listening to too much Dan Savage lately, but assuming he's not currently still banging or interested in banging his ex or half sister, I am not sure this needs to be a relationship ending event.
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    [QUOTE]um. your fiance is gross if he flucked his half sister.   I would absolutely confront him and then leave his ass if he admitted to it.
    Posted by cmgilpin[/QUOTE]



    Thanks. He is denying everything. Mumbled something about his x being a lyer and cheater.
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    [QUOTE]I want to know how they managed to hook up over TK.  Was TK even around 10 years ago?  Did the boards even exist?
    Posted by peekaboo2011[/QUOTE]

    ???
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