One of my bridesmaids joined the peace corps right before I got engaged. I asked her to be a part of my day and now she might now be able to because of the whole "living in another country thing". I will keep her as a bridesmaid because she is that person in my life but how far do I take that? I want her to still be helpful but that seems out of the question. Also how do I include her in the wedding so that others still know she is a bm? Any ideas?