So sat was my hair trial...first time ever in a salon..and it was a nice experience

The lady doing my hair was very nice and didnt just do what she wanted to do she worked with me...so...these are just loosely ideas after merging a few ideas I had saved to my phone
Updo

or half up

I would just get it trimmed by like 1-2 inches so it isnt covering my tat or too far down my back...but I LOVE this one

So..after my hair trial I went to FI's cousin's baby's 1st bday party and actually had fun with the future inlaws..was kinda nice that it was just me and Not FI since he had to work..kinda got to talk more without him in between lol.
After there FMIL and me went to DB and paid off my dress and tried it on to see how the bustle would go..55 bucks later Im a happy girl

They were very nice...and Ive lost a bit more weight too but thankfully its laceup so I not messing with taking in since realllly dont have money for rush fees etc..and I know I can snack easier haha..and I had my hair still somewhat left the way it was from trial so gave me an idea of how it would look..and Im going with Half up

my bustle

and then yesterday was my 2d bridal shower with my side and friends...I had a blast and we got more stuff

some pics of the good times