I have two flower girls in my wedding and they are wearing ivory dresses (the same color as mine). My wedding shoes are dyed orange and I was planning on having my flower girls do the same. One of the girls parents is perfectly ok with this. The other not so much. She keeps insisting that the shoes be ivory so they can be worn again. She also keeps reminding me how expensive the dress was ($150) and that $20 shoes are way too expensive to be worn only once. I've offered to pay for the shoes and her response was that I should really consider how it would look with a t-length ivory dress and orange shoes and that I should really just get shoes that can be worn again. What do I do? I think orange shoes would be adorable.