to liven things up a bit...
dreamalotmp - always watch your step. Wearing a boot is not fun. LAUGH hard and laugh often.
snorge - be nice to people, even when it's painful
nunu&eddie - Even some of your closest friends will hate things that you did at your wedding (like a head table). It doesn't mean that they love you any less, just that they judge your wedding.
d78 - keep a positive outlook on life even when things get tough. Sometimes when people look at you funny, it's just because they don't understand what you're talking about!
dicer2 - don't take life too seriously!
jennybee1029 - sometimes the nicest ones can also be the bitchiest

LOL
l2thec42 - never give up hope and keep a positive attitude
elisha - that I am not the only one with a bitchy sister
NOWWWW, go
Re: Things I've Learned from Knotties..
married knotties- if it's doesn't get done by your wedding day, it wasn't important to begin with
Pittsburgh sig: Favorite thing about fall= college football!
dicer2-- Don't settle. Even if it means you'll live with shag carpet for 6 months.
heyitsjenn-- If I need someone to make a raunchy joke, Jenn's the one to call.
snorgie-- There might be another side to the story, don't judge...yet.
dreamalotmp-- There are people out there clumsier than me.
d78-- Sometimes being joyful makes you forget whether you ordered dinner or not.
L2thec42-- Push yourself until you get where you want to be, and sometimes there's ice cream at the finish line.
er&jer-- Sometimes the glass really is half empty. And a BM dress makes for a very hawt wedding dress!
jennybee-- Being an adventurer can bring great rewards, and camel poop.
crazystance-- Surround yourself with good people. It's always a party with crazystance, just don't invite her friends.
kwynn-- There's an answer for every question, just look harder.
KR-- Good things come to those who plan well. And never include registry info in an invite.
Jenn(new)-- Sometimes everyone else is an @sshole.
S-- Did you have a head table at your wedding? *eyeroll*
LOL
I'll think of more!
LaFemme-- Good things come in LOLz
MissIzz- Even after working retail for the holidays someone can still look forward to Christmas and not be a scrooge.
Snorge- When someone pages you and says that they know you it's not always a stalker, sometimes they really do know you IRL and that's good because without TK who knows when you would have seen them again.
Hey It's Jenn- It's great to have friends to laugh at things no one else is laughing at with.
Er/Jer- It's ok to be a beer snob.
Marburs- I'm not the only one who is sometimes indecisive and that's perfectly cool.
All knotties-Being an everyday part of an online board is really fun and very stress relieving. If I liked my IRL friends more I'd invite them
Married knotties- The decisions that I'm making so far are the right ones for me and that's all that matters.
[QUOTE]from the OG FIF's - don't take things so seriously, it's a freaking internet message board. And if you do get worked up about something, there are probably emails flying around talking about what a beebee you're being.
Posted by missizz[/QUOTE]
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nunu- DIY style can be high style
marburs- sometimes choosing a wedding dress can be a group decision
elishanb- have confidence in the decisions you make, and rock on with your own personal style
new_to_pgh- anything is possible with online shopping, and etsy is amazing
all knotties- Victoria's Secret bras are not all they are cracked up to be
Pittsburgh sig: Favorite thing about fall= college football!
l2 - life is tough. But you can always pick yourself up and get going again.
HeyitsJenn - never work for your grandfather
marburs - it's okay to redo your STD's 50 times, as long as you like the outcome.
jbee - take a chance in life, you never know where it might take you
new2 - etsy... enough said.
Oh dear, where to start?
L2theC42: When things can't seem to get better, keep going with a smile on your face & a song in your heart...as long as the song has some street cred. ;-)
marburs: Ditto Nunu, someone is more indecisive than me! lol
missizz: I learned lots of stuff from missizz, most of which is not appropriate here. lol; but also, strength can be found in some surprising places!
Molly: Yes, laughter is the best medicine, for no matter what ails ya.
snorge: Somehow you can be silly and elegant at the same time. I know it now exists, just still haven't figured out how to imitate it! lol
Jbee: Yes, never pass up an amazing opportunity, EVEN IF camel poop is involved.
Erica: The kitchen isn't really so scary after all. Who knew?
dicer: Ditto Nunu again...don't settle for less than you want, despite the shag carpet in your "holding tank."
nunu: It really is ok to judge others and doesn't make you any less of a person.
Jenn(new): I learned how to snark from you. *sniff, sniff*
kwynn: You've been a wealth of knowledge! I wouldn't know where to start! :-)
Jenn (hey) & Elisha: ghost tours CAN be fun! And so can dive bars!
jbean: When someone gets your goat, don't let 'em take your whole farm and your dignity, too.
everyone: LOLcats can ALWAYS turn around a bad day!
That's all I can think of for now!
More!
Jenn (new): Just when you think your ILs suck, talk to her!
Jenn (hey): what Erica said about grandfathers! :-)
OG FIFs: what Stace said!
And another for everyone: internet friends don't HAVE to be scary!
KR- You don't have to meet someone IRL to know that they are genuinly sweet.
D78- Sometimes sweet people have a little snark built up.
Jenn (new to) - Those stories about bad MILs aren't just for the movies
Dicer- Hair done in the bathroom isn't out of the ordinary.
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Erica - ditto D's
Jenn - when i think that my MIL sucks, I remember yours.
Missizz - it's okay to be snarky. You know most peopel are thinking it anyway.
Everyone - it's not weird to make friends on the internet
kwynn - do your research before making financial decisions
Kwynn--if you want the most thorough answer, ask her
New2Pgh--When I think my ILs suck, I just think of your MIL
KR--you could be one of the nicest people I've never met
Erica--working and out and eating well aren't abnormal or hard
Elisha--Halloween can be as awesome as Christmas
All knotties--everyone needs a few FIFs in their life.
elisha- being a goof is totally in! and to not let things you can't control bother you
kwynn- be thankful for being employed
stace- don't be afraid to express your opinions, if you don't, who else will?
nue- if you get to the 'eff it' stage in wedding planning, its your own fault. plan ahead and get things done early.
mol- make the best of bad situations
cand- remember the past for what it was, but we have our men now- so cherish them
pinkson- work hard, play harder
kim- having differnt styles does not at all mean you don't have anything in common
hey jenn- keep on truckin, and bust out in song and dance whenever possible
jen new- etsy is an amazing way to laugh- easily amused i guess
dori- give everyone a chance and be nice, but don't compromise your beliefs to do so
KR- even the nicest people can have some snark from time to time, and that's awesome
this thread- I need to be more decisive. I think... maybe not. what do you think? I'll have to think about it I guess...
[QUOTE]this thread- I need to be more decisive. I think... maybe not. what do you think? I'll have to think about it I guess...
Posted by marburs[/QUOTE]
No joke, snorted.
oh! how could I forget a few:
shannon- don't settle. be a strong woman both in the workplace and in life in general.
jbee- being far from family on a map doesn't neccesarily mean you are far from them in spirit.
colleen- even tho your boss may suck, stick with it and it will be worth it in the end
skyblue- you don't have to tell FI or DH EVERYTHING for you to have a very healthy relationship, and sometimes secrets are neccesary
lafemme- be cute, even when picking apples! (I need some major style tips)
MissIzz - Don't be afraid to lose if you are being yourself.
Snorge - Think before you speak.
Nunu - Niagra has an extra A! :P
Hey_Its_ - Always have fun even if life gets tough. Oh, and DEFINITELY don't work for your Grandfather.
Kim - Always ask about how others are doing and remember their life events. It is always appreciated and remembered.
New_To - Work hard, play harder.
JennyBee - Don't take life too seriously. Enjoy the ride. Nothing is that bad.