I didn't want to threadjack cunning or Kelly but these positive talks with bf are catchy! We talked this weekend after I found out exactly what my raise was to determine what we should do with it (is: save for wedding or pay off some more of my debt). He said we should split it up because he definitely sees us getting married by the end of the year and I shouldn't worry about time for planning. I know he has the ring already and I hope shoes' prediction of Jan '12 is right on the money! Squeeee Oh and we are moving forward with trying to get out from under this house which was another big thing we needed to get a timeline on. This was an extremely productive weekend with talks and we FINALLY picked bm's dresses for my friends wedding in 5 weeks...just made the cutoff for ordering. Whew! Bonus I actually can wear it again!