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To Invite? or Not to Invite?
Ok ladies, I have a dilemma. Please shout out your thoughts!
My fiance has a very good friend (not in the WP); we'll call him Robert. Robert is married to a woman (we'll call her Tina). Tina and I DO NOT get along at all. So, do I invite her to appease my fiance (even though that is not ideal for MY day). Do I not invite her and only Robert? Do I wait until the wedding date (late 2011) and see where our relationship stands? I don't want to seem selfish, or be a Bridezilla, but I really only want people at my wedding that I enjoy being around. Anyone else had this dilemma?
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Re: To Invite? or Not to Invite?
(I shouted it out.)
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Number wins.
Taco cat: Always a palindrome. ALWAYS, okay J&K?
"cool......insult my size 2 body or my natural brown hair...or the fact that my parents own a country club, I have no budget for a wedding, and I have horses. I really dont care. Its better then having roots." ~ futurepivko
Taco cat: Always a palindrome. ALWAYS, okay J&K?
"cool......insult my size 2 body or my natural brown hair...or the fact that my parents own a country club, I have no budget for a wedding, and I have horses. I really dont care. Its better then having roots." ~ futurepivko
I think I'll wait and see where the F and Robert's relationship stands...
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[QUOTE]Ok ladies, I have a dilemma. Please shout out your thoughts! My fiance has a very good friend (not in the WP); we'll call him Robert. Robert is married to a woman (we'll call her Tina). Tina and I DO NOT get along at all. So, do I invite her to appease my fiance (even though that is not ideal for MY day). Do I not invite her and only Robert? Do I wait until the wedding date (late 2011) and see where our relationship stands? I don't want to seem selfish, or be a Bridezilla, but I really only want people at my wedding that I enjoy being around. Anyone else had this dilemma?
Posted by ashhalsey[/QUOTE]
<div>I don't know how this happened but here is it is again...so you can read it...</div>
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[QUOTE]I GUESS WE DIDN'T MAKE IT IN TIME, APROV.
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DAMMIT NO ONE LOVE ME...... oh well
Of course you have to invite her.
Would you like not being invited somewhere that your husband was?
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[QUOTE]Already haven't. The two are engaged and I was not invited to their engagement party, though my F was. I'm not in the corner crying, I invited her to my engagement party, but I'm just tired of being "the bigger person." I'm sure you all know how that goes. But good Lord, if I haaavve to....:b
Posted by ashhalsey[/QUOTE]
I've noticed that being really nice to people that don't like you really pisses them off. Compliment her often. Ask how she's doing. It will drive her nuts.
[QUOTE]Ok ladies, I have a dilemma. Please shout out your thoughts! My fiance has a very good friend (not in the WP); we'll call him Robert. Robert is married to a woman (we'll call her Tina). Tina and I DO NOT get along at all. So, do I invite her to appease my fiance <strong>(even though that is not ideal for MY day)</strong>. Do I not invite her and only Robert? Do I wait until the wedding date (late 2011) and see where our relationship stands? I don't want to seem selfish, or be a Bridezilla, but I really only want people at my wedding that I enjoy being around. Anyone else had this dilemma?
Posted by ashhalsey[/QUOTE]
It is actually your FI's day too. And his wedding. AND his friend, so his guests should feel just as welcomed and comfortable as the rest of them. Unfortunately, you can't pick and choose which spouses you'd like to invite. You have to invite them all. So unless this woman murdered someone in your family, there is no good reason for not inviting her. And if you still decide not to, be prepared for your FI's friend to not attend your wedding, and for it to affect their friendship.
Taco cat: Always a palindrome. ALWAYS, okay J&K?
"cool......insult my size 2 body or my natural brown hair...or the fact that my parents own a country club, I have no budget for a wedding, and I have horses. I really dont care. Its better then having roots." ~ futurepivko
Infertile, living childfree, advocating like a BOSS
I've had nothing but trouble with the wife of our best man. She's horrid and I can't stand her. I desperately want to address the invite only to him just to stick it to her.