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  • I flame everyone (JCB is at the top of that list) who thought I was out of line for questioning a picture that depicted a child less than a year old sitting in snow in what appeared to be only pajamas. I completely agree that people shouldn't tell others how to parent. But if you put a picture of your child sitting in snow in what looks like inadequate clothing on the internet, I feel like you're opening yourself up for judgement and ridicule.

    And for the record, I WASN'T THE ONLY ONE WHO FUCKING SAID IT. There has been so much selective reading this past week it makes me sick (if I cared enough about the internet to actually be sick).

    So yes, I fucking questioned Ciara about Edmund's clothing. SHOOT ME. I would hope someone would do the same for my niece if they saw her sitting in the fucking snow in what appears to be only pajamas. When she said he had four layers of clothes on, I was happy to drop it and not think anything more of it. But SHE PUT THE PICTURE UP. That's fair game to be asked a question IMO.
  • Shan, I would too, except I just stepped outside to mail something and it feels like it's about 8 degrees with the windchill outside.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Did you intentionally direct this at Steph when Blue was the one who said it? I can't decide if it's better if you did it on purpose to be funny or if it was a mistake.
    Posted by emilyinchile[/QUOTE]
    TOTAL mistake. And it was a joke. 
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Hahahahahahahahaha! Oh, the irony.
    Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

    So *I'm* lame? Okay.
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    [QUOTE]Blue, has anyone told you that you look super tired in your sig pic? I donät know if it's the lighting or the amount of eye makeup or what... but I'm not sure that it's flattering.
    Posted by Snippylynn[/QUOTE]
    wtf, seriously. wtf.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : TOTAL mistake. And it was a joke. 
    Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]

    <div>Haha, I knew it was a joking fuuck you anyway, but that just makes it even better.</div><div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : So *I'm* lame? Okay.
    Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

    So far, in this thread, yes.

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  • I really just don't understand why people go after another person's appearance in their sig.
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  • Yes, my illustrious modship.  The single dorkiest thing I do in my life.  Dorkier than owning my own engraved bowling ball.  As I said in my earlier post, Celles, I don't see the point to reflaming someone who was flamed 5 pages earlier, especially if I have nothing new to add to it.  And I often wish that FFF would start when I'm not actively doing something at work so I could be part of the active stuff, because sometimes I really do have a flame.

    The times when I say that I won't participate in a game because I'm mod are the lovefests, and that's only because in those cases, I don't want to appear to be playing favorites.  I think there's a big difference.

    And, as I stated before, to anyone who has a problem with the way that I moderate, feel free to avoid E.  Or feel free to offer to replace me to KA. 
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    [QUOTE]I really just don't understand why people go after another person's appearance in their sig.
    Posted by musicalsunlight[/QUOTE]

    They have nothing legitimate to say?
  • Guys eagles sells Disney jewelry, so unless midge is buying from her I'd hardly call her a vendor.
  • hey, Mica. Since you're the mod, is there a reason you haven't said anything to Amoro for the 'attack' on Blue's sig pic?
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : So *I'm* lame? Okay.
    Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]
    Apparently J&K isn't being as misunderstood today as she thought.
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    [QUOTE]Guys eagles sells Disney jewelry, so unless midge is buying from her I'd hardly call her a vendor.
    Posted by Stackeye210[/QUOTE]

    GOING OUT OF BUSINESS SALE! ALL MUST GO!!
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : They have nothing legitimate to say?
    Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]


    Probably. It just feels like a really lame way to reach for something mean to say.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : They have nothing legitimate to say?
    Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]

    Ding ding ding!
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Probably. It just feels like a really lame way to reach for something mean to say.
    Posted by musicalsunlight[/QUOTE]

    It was amoro. Are we surprised?
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    [QUOTE]I flame everyone (JCB is at the top of that list) who thought I was out of line for questioning a picture that depicted a child less than a year old sitting in snow in what appeared to be only pajamas. I completely agree that people shouldn't tell others how to parent. But if you put a picture of your child sitting in snow in what looks like inadequate clothing on the internet, I feel like you're opening yourself up for judgement and ridicule. And for the record, I WASN'T THE ONLY ONE WHO FUCKING SAID IT. There has been so much selective reading this past week it makes me sick (if I cared enough about the internet to actually be sick). So yes, I fucking questioned Ciara about Edmund's clothing. SHOOT ME. I would hope someone would do the same for my niece if they saw her sitting in the fucking snow in what appears to be only pajamas. When she said he had four layers of clothes on, I was happy to drop it and not think anything more of it. But SHE PUT THE PICTURE UP. That's fair game to be asked a question IMO.
    Posted by Birdie1483[/QUOTE]

    It is <strong>just a picture</strong>. You have never taken a picture of your dog wearing an uncomfortable outfit? He may have been uncomfortable but it was just for second. 

    Ciara didn't put her *monty burns* fingers together and leave him out in the snow overnight. It was ONE picture for crying out loud. Your armchair quarterbacking in this case was unnecessary and preachy.

    She was NOT trying to give him hypothermia she saw a cute photop and took it.  It looks like you were being persnickety just to be difficult.
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    [QUOTE]Guys eagles sells Disney jewelry, so unless midge is buying from her I'd hardly call her a vendor.
    Posted by Stackeye210[/QUOTE]
    OH. MY. GOD.<div>
    </div><div>You win FFF. You may have my Hood(s)ie</div>
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  • I wish I cared what Amoro thinks about how I look.

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : It is  just a picture . You have never taken a picture of your dog wearing an uncomfortable outfit? He may have been uncomfortable but it was just for second.  Ciara didn't put her *monty burns* fingers together and leave him out in the snow overnight. It was ONE picture for crying out loud. Your armchair quarterbacking in this case was unnecessary and preachy. She was NOT trying to give him hypothermia she saw a cute photop and took it.  It looks like you were being persnickety just to be difficult.
    Posted by gct2010[/QUOTE]

    Hi, nice to meet you.  What else do you have to say?  You have my attention.

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  • huh. I thought Birdie overreacted to the picture, but I think gct just overreacted even more.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : It is  just a picture . You have never taken a picture of your dog wearing an uncomfortable outfit? He may have been uncomfortable but it was just for second.  Ciara didn't put her *monty burns* fingers together and leave him out in the snow overnight. It was ONE picture for crying out loud. Your armchair quarterbacking in this case was unnecessary and preachy. She was NOT trying to give him hypothermia she saw a cute photop and took it.  It looks like you were being persnickety just to be difficult.
    Posted by gct2010[/QUOTE]
    Oh go fuuck yourself. 
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : It was amoro. Are we surprised?
    Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]

    Well, considering since I've been around, Snips has been post "mean amoro", it is one of the first I've seen of it. ;) But with the background, I suppose not. :)
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    [QUOTE]hey, Mica. Since you're the mod, is there a reason you haven't said anything to Amoro for the 'attack' on Blue's sig pic?
    Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]

    Has she ever said anything nice to Snips in a lovefest?  Because, you know, that might imply favoritism.
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  • J&K, I think we misunderstood each other if that long post was about what I had pointed out. I was more pointing out the fact that I think it's awful not to be able to talk about the things you know about. I agree that they should be careful though. 
  • Sorry, I was busy typing. 

    Snippy, did you really have to attack Blue's wedding pic?
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : It was amoro. Are we surprised?
    Posted by Steph0871[/QUOTE]

    Exactly. And it's not like Amoro is the queen of beauty advice, so Blue should take the criticism from where it comes. 

    I mean that haircut is a crime against fashion.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : It is  just a picture . You have never taken a picture of your dog wearing an uncomfortable outfit? He may have been uncomfortable but it was just for second.  Ciara didn't put her *monty burns* fingers together and leave him out in the snow overnight. It was ONE picture for crying out loud. Your armchair quarterbacking in this case was unnecessary and preachy. She was NOT trying to give him hypothermia she saw a cute photop and took it.  It looks like you were being persnickety just to be difficult.
    Posted by gct2010[/QUOTE]

    <div>Are you really comparing dressing a dog to putting a human baby outside in the snow?  Because that's not even close to the same thing. </div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : So far, in this thread, yes.
    Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

    This right here is my 5th comment in a 16 page thread. You guys are doing just fiiiine by yourselves. I have nothing to flame because I haven't read many threads this week. So I commented on the comments. *Shrug*

    And honestly, I'm trying to find menstrualbloodgate without being even more lame and asking for a lalalink.
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