Hi ladies, I've posted this question on a few boards but I thought I'd ask one more time to make sure theres no etiquette reason that I can't wear a strapless ballgown in May. I was supposed to get married in August but then on Christmas my fiance and I realized we looked at the wrong calender so we had to move our wedding date up to May instead! Were having a small wedding in my fmil's backyard and we only have a few out of town guests so I'm not worried about getting the planning donebut now she's saying I can't wear the strapless ballgown in May that I already paids for. I tried using google to look it up but I'm not very good with google I can never find what I'm looking for lol! Nobody on the dress board had heard of this, or on the May wedding board but I was just thinking my fmil has some wierd etiquette reason that i haven't heard of. I was telling her some f the answers I got before and she is kind've coming around but she still won't tell me whats wrong with a starpless ballgown in MAy, maybe she just doesn't like my dress lol! Still since its her back yard I don't want her to be angry, her yard is really pretty and perfect for my dream wedding but I want to wear my dream dress to! has anyoen heard of no strapless ballgowns in May?