As mentioned in my wedding recap. I mentioned mil being sick and was hospitalized for 2 weeks the day after our wedding. For the past 5 years mil been in and out the hospital. Just this year alone, she's been in the hospital 4 times. Mil goes from being okay and once d/c from the hospital she does fine for a few weeks/months and then sick again. Alot of her issues is the neglect for herself. She suffers from heart problems(depression in denial) and now kidney failure. Dh argues with her back and forth about her taking care of herself better and getting new doctors. You would think this woman lives alone but she has a hubby.
Hubby called and asked when am I going to see his mom. Frankly his mom is doing better, eventhough, still in the hospital but he expects everytime she is sick that I suppose to drop everything to go visit her. I'm tired. I started a second job over a week ago and working 14hrs a day Mon-Friday. Yesterday, I had to take my own mother to the store and Sunday is actually my time. Now if she was doing horrible then of course I would go see about her. But she is improving and I just spoke to her via telephone last night. Why do I have to see her everytime she end up in the hospital? But bil does not. Now my bil lives 4 hrs away but only been down her in the city twice this year(nye and our wedding) and never once come down to visit while his own mother been hospitalized over the years.. Actually last year when mil had a stroke his brother still went on his honeymoon and did not come down till a month later and that was only because my husband was giving her a birthday party and asked him to come.