I read your post from last week about the knotties on the etiquette board who were knocking your shower STD (I didn't comment on your post, but I'll just say that they aren't very nice people). Well, I got the Oriental Trading Wedding catalog in the mail today, and look what was on page 20 (see "Advice from a bride"):
I just wanted to share :-)

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