Soo... i am a very young bride.. I am 19 and about to finish my first year of college. My FH and i have been together for over 3 years, I love him more than words and my family absolutely adore him. I am technically not engaged yet because i dont have a ring and he has not proposed yet, but before he leff to go to the Air Force we had begun the planning process. We plan on actually getting engaged this summer when he is home on leave, we also dont plan on actually getting married for a couple years. My family is the type that hold me to very high standards and i feel as if i will either disappoint them when i tell or they will be fairly happy. My mother has always told me to wait to get married but i feel she could understand our situation. I love my family very much, we are all very close and all i want is for them to be happy for me, but i feel they will secretly disapprove and judge. Can someone give me some advice on how to tell my family? I feel like i should be excited to tell but i'm absolutely terrified. Am i overthinking it??