Hey ladies,
I married my soldier about 3 weeks and we are planning a wedding for sept 2011. He deploys very soon and this is my first deployment. I have cried for like the past week and im so nervous about this. I have never gone through a deployment and im really not sure how to handle it. How did you guys handle your first deployment? Any recommendations on anything I can do to make this easier or at least not as bad? Did books help, or chat rooms, or what? And how did ur husband or FH help you deal with it? Ive talked to him about and he said he doesnt know how he can help other than just being there for me. Any thing you laies could recommend would be great. Oh also we are long distance right now and i wont be moving there until next year when he comes home.