My fiance and I had been dating for over two years when we got engaged last November. Its been very exciting (and dramatic) talking about possibilities for our wedding. We are really looking forward to it. I recently made really good friends with someone that has been a friend of his family for a really long time. Everything has been great. We hang out a lot and have been going on cute double dates and everything. Lately though she has seemingly been planning her wedding along with mine. She is constantly talking about what she would want when we look at dresses, colors, ect....She is even going as far as accusing me of "stealing her ideas". Her and her guy are getting very serious (not engaged yet) and I am very happy for them, but its kindof erking me that she thinks we should be planning her wedding. Not to mention they havn't been dating for that long......its making me crazy! I was thinking about asking her to be a bridesmaid since we have a really good relationship, but I am not sure if I can deal with planning her wedding right now too!! I don't want any bride wars! Not my scene!! What shoud I do? Should I say something to her or am I just being unreasonable?